Send a message to the person who requested a photo of the grave monument of Stephen Southerden with the following comment:
I am currently researching the Southerden leg of my family tree - Stephen is my 5th Grand Uncle :)I thank you in advance for any images you can give me of this grave - I do not live in Kent and it is very difficult for me to get there myselfPS - this website is pretty amazing in how helpful it is!